By helping people communicate and grow through intimacy, we aim to inspire a culture of love, acceptance, and adventure in all its forms.

Hi, I’m Jusine.

My journey has been a long one, leading me to become the person I always wished to have in my life. I believe in the transformative power of pleasure, understanding our bodies and embracing our sexuality with confidence, enthusiasm and love.

My approach is rooted in compassion and kindness, both to ourselves and to others. I create a safe and welcoming space where open conversations about sex and relationships are not just encouraged but celebrated. I'm here to listen, guide, and help you connect more deeply with your own body, your desires and your relationships.

The cornerstone of my life is my relationship with my husband, Phil. We've been together for 27 years, and our relationship has been my greatest teacher. Alongside him, I've experienced a journey of growth and experimentation in a safe, loving space. Through our challenges and perseverance, we've deepened our love and learned to support each other in becoming our best selves.

I've spent years studying, practicing, and exploring various facets of sexuality. My passion is sharing this knowledge and guiding others on their own paths of self-discovery. Helping people connect more deeply with themselves, communicate clearly with others, and find pleasure and comfort in their bodies.

Whether it's coaching individuals, hosting edgy parties, or facilitating retreats, I find joy and meaning in creating safe spaces where magic can happen.

My exploration into Sacred Sexuality led me to study with Layla Martin, and her VITA coaching method took me on a powerful two-year journey of self-exploration and discovery. Now, as a VITA certified love, sex, and relationship coach, I bring loving presence, kindness, and acceptance to those vulnerable, challenging moments of personal growth. My approach combines intuition with directness, offering a supportive hand as you navigate your own transformational journey.

Hi, I’m Phil.

I understand and honor boundaries.  I witness without judgment.  I have integrity.  I am a strong, dominant man.  It took awhile to get here.

I was born a privileged white male in the patriarchy.  I have spent many years undoing the challenges this created.  Challenges in feeling safe to express my emotions.  Challenges in expressing myself as a strong dominant man.  Challenges in letting myself love and be loved by both men and women.  Challenges in moving through the world with ease.  Undoing these challenges has brought me to a place of freedom.  Now with my hard won wisdom, I am in a position to give back.  

A core mission I have is to help create safe places and spaces for folks to freely express themselves without fear of judgment, especially in the world of BDSM.  I have been an active member of our kink community: creating a community home, creating an education facility, serving on the Board, being an ambassador to the curious. 

Another core mission of mine is to interact with individuals that are curious about finding their own path to freedom.  Providing coaching and mentorship.  Providing hands on experiences that open up possibilities.  Providing tools and practices that allow folks to find their way.

I’m here for you as you contemplate joining me on the path of self discovery, and finding what adventures await you.

I’ve been married to Justine for 23 years and we have the most amazing relationship.  It’s because of our secure attachment and deep connection that everything else is possible.  Without her, I wouldn’t be here for you. We live in NY in the summer, and in Mexico in the winter.

My studies in sacred sexuality include Sky Dancing Tantra with Margot Anand (Love and Ecstasy Training), multiple ISTA trainings, Somatic Sex Education, BDSM with Om Rupani, and Like a Pro: Wheel of Consent with Betty Martin.

I’ve designed and led workshops and retreats like Exploring Desire in Sacred Connection, A Sacred Sexual Experience into Self-Inquiry, Shame Lab: A Playful Experiment Exploring Shameful and Embarrassing Sexual Fantasies, and How to Touch a Pussy. Each one is created to deepen connection, challenge shame, and expand pleasure.

I love to cook - feeding people is one of my love languages. I’ve had careers as an environmental engineer, as a chef, as a foundryman, as a caterer, as a landlord. I’m a father to three daughters from my first marriage.

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Take a look at our offerings & book a call so that we can create a custom path to support you in aligning with your desires.

Our Experience & Training

VITA Coaching with Layla Martin

Sacred Sexuality Retreat Facilitator

ISTA L1, L2, hands on ISTA Practitioner training

BDSM studies with Om Rupani

Studied Somatic Sex Education

Betty Martin Wheel of Consent - Like a Pro

JourneyDance Guide training with Toni Bergins

SkyDancing Tantra-The Love and Ecstacy training

Urban Tantra Barbara Carelles

Native North American Shamanism- Sierra Bender, Michael Ridolfo

Peruvian Shamanism- Elizabeth Jenkins, Sierra Bender

Yoga Therapy Teacher Training with Sierra Bender

Designed and led sexuality retreats and workshops:

“Exploring Desire in Sacred Connection”, 

“A Sacred Sexual Experience into Self Inquiry”, 

“Shame Lab - A Playful Experiment Exploring Shameful and Embarrassing Sexual Fantasies”,

“How to Touch a Pussy”, and more.

Client Love

  • "I felt incredibly supported in expressing my desires"

    “I came in a bit nervous, not knowing what to expect, but as soon as I walked through the door, I felt an overwhelming sense of love and safety. Phil and Justine create a space where you truly feel like their home is your home. From that first moment, I knew I was taken care of, which allowed me to drop fully into my body and be present.

    I felt incredibly supported in expressing my desires—even when I was a bit nervous—which made it easier to speak my truth, whether during an exercise or simply at lunch. If you’re someone who wants to explore your desires in a safe, non-judgmental space and shed the weight of shame, go spend time with Phil and Justine. You’ll be held, supported, and truly seen!”

    Mier S. | NY

  • "I always feel accepted, loved, and completely open in their energy"

    “Justine and Phil embody loving presence, deep wisdom, and the ability to create and hold safe, non-judgmental spaces for exploration, healing, and creative expression. Whether it's inviting playfulness or welcoming all emotions as they arise, their facilitation is grounded, trauma-informed, and infused with care.

    I always feel accepted, loved, and completely open in their energy and the spaces they hold. Their ability to meet each person where they are—with compassion and clarity—makes working with them a truly special experience.

    For anyone considering their offerings, I wholeheartedly recommend them. Their years of experience, strong space-holding skills, and clear communication make them trustworthy guides in deep and transformative work.

    I’m deeply grateful for how they welcome such a wide range of energies, creating a container where free expression can flourish and shame can be released in all its forms. The work they do is meaningful, and the spaces they create are powerful.”

    -Josh J | NYC

  • "Invaluable perspective and direction"

    “Over the past year, Phil and Justine have helped led me on a remarkable journey of personal, spiritual, and sexual growth that has transformed my life in profound ways. 

    Phil, your wisdom and insights have provided me with invaluable perspective and direction. Your encouragement and belief in my potential have given me the confidence to take on challenges and explore my needs and desires. I am so grateful for your mentorship and for always being there to offer sound advice and a listening ear

    Justine, your unwavering support and compassion have been a source of strength for me. Your kindness and understanding have made a profound impact on my life, and I am deeply appreciative of your willingness to help me navigate through my discoveries. Your guidance and friendship have been a beacon of light, and I am truly thankful for all that you have done.

    Thank you, Phil and Justine, for your remarkable support and guidance. Your contributions have been a cornerstone of my growth, success, and happiness. I am forever grateful for your presence in my life.”

    - Sonia M. | NY